Femmedy
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@anyidev @Nattysmartcodez @GwejeofAfrica @NigeriaStories 200k is huge sum in which country please? Keep contradicting yourself
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@Nattysmartcodez @GwejeofAfrica @NigeriaStories To be honest with you, 200k is a huge sum of money. The problem here is that the currency is currently devalued. Compare $1k to 200k NGN and see the big difference. Now check, can US pay someone $200k a month? The answer is No. The problem is from the government!
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Nigerians are incredibly bright, but global standards demand global compensation.
You aren't struggling to find top-tier talent because of yahoo and hookup culture. You are struggling because the Nigerians who actually meet global standards are already working remotely for foreign companies paying in US Dollars. The few who survive our broken education system and successfully upskill themselves immediately stop playing in the local league.
Are local companies actually looking for global talent, or are they just looking for global talent at a local discount?
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@kainejohnson18 @AdageorgeA Shey most women can live their best life without children at that age? Y'all are just too delisional to tell yourselves the truth
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@AdageorgeA And she is happy... She is living her best life.. she has peace of mind... She is not even pressured
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Men have proposed to me many times. People think the reason I am not married is that nobody asked. That is not true. I said no because I knew deep inside that I could not do forever with those people. Dating someone and marrying them are not the same thing. There are things you can manage as a girlfriend that you cannot survive as a wife.
When a man starts talking about the future, I look at him with clear eyes. Is this the person I want to father my children? Is he kind? How does he treat his mother and other women? How does he behave around children? Those small details show you the pattern of his heart. I tell young girls, do not only look for romance, look for character. That is what you will live with every day.
~ Bimbo Akintola

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@TheOnlyKemi @Miss_Oluremi Don't be a stumbling block to someone's blessing
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People are dragging this lady on TikTok because she said she paid 50% of their wedding bills with her husband. A lot of women are saying a ‘real man’ should never allow his wife to contribute even one kobo.
My question is simple: As a man would you be comfortable with your wife paying 50% of the wedding?
As a woman would you happily contribute half, or you expect your man to carry everything? Be honest o, no cap.

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@Miss_Oluremi @TheOnlyKemi Miss oluremi, Whao! I love your sense of reasoning. You Are you single? Just asking for a friend. 😃
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@TheOnlyKemi That is the mistake some men keep making. They see a woman being loud about how supportive she is, and they fall into it. Forgetting that the same loudness is the tool she'll use to ridicule you when she supports you.
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@sommydeval_701 @ABUJAPLUG she be woman... what she earns doesn't matter
she no even supposed dey work
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Men Don’t Realize How Strong Women Are. They Are Stronger Than Us But are more Emotionally Expressive — Banky W
Singer and actor Banky W has praised the strength of women, especially in marriage and family life, while reflecting on his personal journey with his wife, Adesua Etomi.
“I think men don’t realize just how strong women are. They are stronger than us; they’re just more emotionally expressive, but they are strong,” he said.
He explained that marriage thrives on mutual effort and sacrifice.
“Marriage is 100/100. It looks different in every season, but it’s easier to give of yourself when your partner is doing the same,” he noted.
Banky W also spoke about his wife’s sacrifices, especially during their IVF journey.
“In our journey to having children, I’ve seen her endure things that would break people… we were going through IVF cycle after IVF cycle and it wasn’t working. She would get back on her feet and inject herself with whatever they said,” he revealed.
He added that she supported him through personal and spiritual growth, even when it required sacrifice.
“I’ve seen her give me grace in my journey of growth and my walk with God… having to share me with God and what God has called me to do,” he said.
He also noted differences in their love languages, saying his wife values quality time while his demanding schedule often makes it difficult.
Banky W further revealed that Adesua paused parts of her career in certain seasons as they focused on building their family, describing her as deeply selfless and strong.
He concluded by expressing gratitude for her role in his life, describing her as one of the strongest people he knows and saying he feels fulfilled in life because of her love and sacrifices.

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@shei042 @jas_d_barbie Meanwhile your own no get even half ofd those qualities. Na woman dey do woman! Make you deceive am till she enter pit.
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@riod_e @Onyekacharless @Wizarab10 Maybe a connection is all he needs. Are you ladies that clueless to link up your guys to people who can help them? He should level up so he can take care of the girl abi? +234 girls only knows how to collect from guys without returning the gesture 🤦♂️
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@Tok3ntak3r @Onyekacharless @Wizarab10 Omo anytime wey woman support my take on issues like this, I dey always r rethink am. 😂 😂
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@instablog9ja This man should be used a cursing reference for other men. Chai
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"I'm very sad. My wife doesn't clean the house, so I usually do it. I went away for just 2 days & came back to a messy house.
She didn't know I was coming home today. This marriage isn't even up to a year but I'm stressing out already. Most times i come back from work tired & will still have to do the dishes & tidy up the place including our own bedroom. I didn't notice this side of her when we were dating. My wife was so neat as a 'girlfriend' she'll come over to my place, wash, clean & tidy up my home & even change the bedsheets countless times.
But After marriage, she has completely changed & I've been the one doing all these things & it's even worse now that we have a 3 months old baby. The photos here is just what I've been seeing & going through all this time, but just that this one has gotten to an extreme & i find it hard coz, I can't hold it to myself anymore.
I broke up with my girlfriend, bcoz i needed a serious relationship & didn't have interest ever marrying her bcoz she wasn't educated, I thought that was important, but now I realize I was wrong. She was an amazing person. But I was blind to all that. I left her for someone else, who was educated, The same lady that I'm married to today, But now, I'm stuck with a wife who is messy & lazy.
I'm left to do almost everything myself even after work. I'm so miserable. & I regret my decision everyday but I'm helpless. I'm stressing everyday in my marriage. I'm so upset & don't know what to do anymore.."




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