
John Robertson
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John Robertson
@john_mortal
mathematician, nerdy board games, sci fi fantasy, t.s. eliot, poe, mst3k




@kissames @SocialistMormon Her as the provider means that she can't quit to raise children, regardless of what he contributes to the family. To me, a provider husband means that I'm able to stay at home with my children while they are young. She can't. It's all on her and that will have an effect.





“I grew up in Arizona, served a mission in Mexico, and went to college thinking I had a pretty clear path for my life. Then I met my now wife Victoria, and everything changed in the best way. “She always knew she wanted to be a doctor. Pediatric neurology isn’t an easy road, but it’s who she is, compassionate, steady, brilliant, and drawn to help kids and families through the hardest things life hands them. When she got into med school in California, we packed up and moved. “Stepping into her dream together was an easy choice. I wanted to support her the way she has always supported me. And honestly, watching her work and sacrifice and love people like she does has strengthened my faith more than anything else. “My path hasn’t been as clear. I’ve tried different directions, learned a lot, prayed a lot. Some days I still feel like I’m figuring it out. But I do know that God doesn’t measure timelines. He measures love, humility, and the way we show up for each other. “Supporting her doesn’t shrink my purpose—it expands it. Our callings from God can look different, and that’s beautiful. I’m building my future too, but I’m grateful that right now, part of my purpose is cheering for the person I love most as she steps into hers. “There’s not one 'right way' to build a family or a future. For us, this is ours. And it’s sacred.” — Nate










I’m feeling so discouraged that the message from my Savior’s church is that my dreams and my worth lie in the workplace. We are barraged my this messaging from the world, that we aren’t enough till we contribute in the workforce. We need to make motherhood valued again. There is no greater calling.




“I grew up in Arizona, served a mission in Mexico, and went to college thinking I had a pretty clear path for my life. Then I met my now wife Victoria, and everything changed in the best way. “She always knew she wanted to be a doctor. Pediatric neurology isn’t an easy road, but it’s who she is, compassionate, steady, brilliant, and drawn to help kids and families through the hardest things life hands them. When she got into med school in California, we packed up and moved. “Stepping into her dream together was an easy choice. I wanted to support her the way she has always supported me. And honestly, watching her work and sacrifice and love people like she does has strengthened my faith more than anything else. “My path hasn’t been as clear. I’ve tried different directions, learned a lot, prayed a lot. Some days I still feel like I’m figuring it out. But I do know that God doesn’t measure timelines. He measures love, humility, and the way we show up for each other. “Supporting her doesn’t shrink my purpose—it expands it. Our callings from God can look different, and that’s beautiful. I’m building my future too, but I’m grateful that right now, part of my purpose is cheering for the person I love most as she steps into hers. “There’s not one 'right way' to build a family or a future. For us, this is ours. And it’s sacred.” — Nate







Why did Judas betray Jesus? It's not the reason you think. I've seen much speculation on how "Satan entered into Judas" and inspired him to betray the Savior: "Maybe he was corrupted by greed? He did steal from the treasury of the Quorum, after all, and got paid a small sum for his betrayal." "Maybe he was trying to force Jesus into wider publicity and show signs? No more of this 'tell no man' business?" "Maybe He was trying to force Jesus to be the Messiah he wanted? Put Him in a position where He had to use His power against Rome?" In the end, who can really say why Judas did what he did? Joseph Smith, the Prophet and Seer of the Lord. He can really say. In the JST of Mark 14, he directly tells us Judas's motivation: "Judas Iscariot, even one of the twelve, went unto the chief priests, to betray Jesus unto them, for he turned away from him, and was offended because of his words." The damning influence that guided Judas down the dark path to deliver His Savior to death is the same influence that pulls women out of attending Relief Society, makes men disregard their Priesthood leaders, and breaks the bonds of brotherhood and sisterhood all across the Church: offense. Offense is addicting because being it's a combination of three psychological highs: 1. A position of moral superiority 2. Victimhood/underdog status 3. A "bad guy" to blame our problems on That's an intoxicating mixture. This is why, years ago, I adopted a motto that guides my interpersonal interactions: "Never underestimate someone's tendency to take offense. Including your own." Satan is extremely powerful with the potent sin of offense. In fact, he has influenced our very vocabulary around it! Rarely do you hear someone utter the phrase "I took offense" or "he took offense." Instead, we place the responsibility on the other party: "Her remarks are offensive. He offended me. I am offended that you did that." When we speak like that, we deny our agency, and make ourselves objects to be acted upon. Beware such thinking. Don't minimize it. Nursing a grudge places you in grave spiritual danger. It doesn't matter if the other person has repented or reconciled. Learn the lesson of Judas: don't hold your own spiritual life hostage over something someone else said or did. Elder @BednarDavidA gave an amazing talk on this subject a few years ago. I invite everyone to read it frequently: churchofjesuschrist.org/study/general-…




“I grew up in Arizona, served a mission in Mexico, and went to college thinking I had a pretty clear path for my life. Then I met my now wife Victoria, and everything changed in the best way. “She always knew she wanted to be a doctor. Pediatric neurology isn’t an easy road, but it’s who she is, compassionate, steady, brilliant, and drawn to help kids and families through the hardest things life hands them. When she got into med school in California, we packed up and moved. “Stepping into her dream together was an easy choice. I wanted to support her the way she has always supported me. And honestly, watching her work and sacrifice and love people like she does has strengthened my faith more than anything else. “My path hasn’t been as clear. I’ve tried different directions, learned a lot, prayed a lot. Some days I still feel like I’m figuring it out. But I do know that God doesn’t measure timelines. He measures love, humility, and the way we show up for each other. “Supporting her doesn’t shrink my purpose—it expands it. Our callings from God can look different, and that’s beautiful. I’m building my future too, but I’m grateful that right now, part of my purpose is cheering for the person I love most as she steps into hers. “There’s not one 'right way' to build a family or a future. For us, this is ours. And it’s sacred.” — Nate









“I grew up in Arizona, served a mission in Mexico, and went to college thinking I had a pretty clear path for my life. Then I met my now wife Victoria, and everything changed in the best way. “She always knew she wanted to be a doctor. Pediatric neurology isn’t an easy road, but it’s who she is, compassionate, steady, brilliant, and drawn to help kids and families through the hardest things life hands them. When she got into med school in California, we packed up and moved. “Stepping into her dream together was an easy choice. I wanted to support her the way she has always supported me. And honestly, watching her work and sacrifice and love people like she does has strengthened my faith more than anything else. “My path hasn’t been as clear. I’ve tried different directions, learned a lot, prayed a lot. Some days I still feel like I’m figuring it out. But I do know that God doesn’t measure timelines. He measures love, humility, and the way we show up for each other. “Supporting her doesn’t shrink my purpose—it expands it. Our callings from God can look different, and that’s beautiful. I’m building my future too, but I’m grateful that right now, part of my purpose is cheering for the person I love most as she steps into hers. “There’s not one 'right way' to build a family or a future. For us, this is ours. And it’s sacred.” — Nate









