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unpinning when i get out of the 110s!!! ugh ive come so far, it feels insanely skinny of me to have this goal AHHHH

@DiscoDebbie1 oh yeah cause being an ally or having an identity has an expiration date

Pronouns in bio and ur over 30

@Ciscopanda @satansbottom @Reux041 @devastatingstan @normalmaxxedaj if you really and truly dont see a difference between watching porn and using your imagination, then it should be no issue at all to stop watching porn for your partner 😋

@kittyrexie @satansbottom @Reux041 @devastatingstan @normalmaxxedaj So just in moderation then? What’s the real issue here? I don’t see the difference between using your imagination and using porn.

I’m learning that many straight women really do just want their boyfriends to lie to them constantly. They don’t want honest, vulnerable admissions of desire & predilections, they want to be deceived & manipulated because they prefer the egotistical fantasy that their man only ever thinks sexually about them as opposed to actual intimacy. It’s very childish, actually. Teenage girl mentality

@lljcook @normalmaxxedaj fantastic, so you dont even need porn! why are you disagreeing with me? 😂

@kittyrexie @normalmaxxedaj That's why I have sex with my fiance

@GranblueG @normalmaxxedaj it is absolutely a standard for me and many other women, why is that such an issue? bc it rules you out?

@kittyrexie @normalmaxxedaj It's not a standard, it's a preference. Just because she's not into porn doesn't mean her partner can't be watching it either.

@carl_crisper @btcandmemes @normalmaxxedaj yay thank you 💜

@kittyrexie @btcandmemes @normalmaxxedaj You sound like an annoying cunt

@Tetsion @normalmaxxedaj your incorrect assumption of mismatched libido aside, you can masturbate 10 times a day (exaggeration) and still not watch a single frame of porn lol. if you disagree, youre admitting to an addiction you probably need help with

@kittyrexie @normalmaxxedaj T horomone = high sex drive. E horomone = low sex drive. A lot of responses are redacted here, but there are men who don’t want to burden their partner with their sex drive and then if they do commit and ask -every night- to be intimate, it inevitably will annoy low tolerance ppl

@H0LYDI0 @devastatingstan @normalmaxxedaj just like you have a right to keep your porn consumption private, women have a right to want a partner that is open, honest, and does not watch porn.

@kittyrexie @devastatingstan @normalmaxxedaj It shouldn’t be anyone’s business regarding his/her/their private habits whether it involves porn or not, that’s why it’s PRIVATE

@streetastronaut @normalmaxxedaj i think you missed the "clear communication" part

@kittyrexie @normalmaxxedaj You can want a partner that doesn’t watch porn but clarify that as soon as you get into a serious relationship, if you just never say anything you can’t be mad at him down the line

@satansbottom @Reux041 @devastatingstan @normalmaxxedaj i agree, but pornography has never existed in the dopamine flooding, exaggerated, limitless, instant way that it exists online now. it changes your perception of sexuality and its completely reasonable to not want a partner who watches it

@kittyrexie @Reux041 @devastatingstan @normalmaxxedaj pornography & erotic art dates back 30,000 years to prehistoric times. ever since humans started to create art, they started to create porn

@Snukkems_Art @normalmaxxedaj you said "porn addict" dude 😂 im done here youre grasping at straws to disagree w me

@kittyrexie @normalmaxxedaj Theres no such thing as a porn addition lol

@Snukkems_Art @normalmaxxedaj i was responding to the quote tweet, who is talking about women and men as a general whole. my point still stands, its entirely reasonable for me to have that expectation for my partner

@kittyrexie @normalmaxxedaj Buddy he said he looked at porn a week or so ago and his girlfriend called him a weird disgusting degenerate and berated him. Like one person is acting like theyre a sex freak and its the one doing humiliation play.

@userofmarijuana @normalmaxxedaj this being an "obvious compromise" is an opinion of yours. why should i settle for someone that doesnt match my energy just bc the vast majority of men are the same way? a partner is not a requirement for a full life

@kittyrexie @normalmaxxedaj Ok, but we should be realistic. Men want a super skinny, large breasted nymphomaniac virgin. Almost nobody gets that and it’s silly to hold out for. Almost everyone wants a partner. So you can have preferences, but frankly this one seems like an obvious place to compromise.

@userofmarijuana @normalmaxxedaj very rare, meaning they exist. women are allowed to have high standards, even (especially) if it means excluding the vast majority of men. singleness is also a great option

@kittyrexie @normalmaxxedaj I don’t think women understand how many men watch porn. They have high sex drives and a biological desire for sexual variety. It’s fine for a woman to have preferences, but it’s *very* rare to find a normal man who never watches porn.

@btcandmemes @normalmaxxedaj difficult, not impossible. its still a reasonable expectation. women are allowed to have high standards, and singleness is a perfectly fine alternative

@kittyrexie @normalmaxxedaj Like in so many other situations, what you’re requesting is considerably harder for men than women. Aprox 78% of men watch porn vs. 44% women. The equivalent for women is these smut, sexual fantasy novels like 50 Shades.

@0Gunt0 @normalmaxxedaj the "spirit" of the rule is not to limit fantasizing or self pleasure. i just dont want to look at another persons body and jack off while in a relationship. completely reasonable to expect the same from a monogamous partner

@kittyrexie @normalmaxxedaj Absolutely are, if they follow the SPIRIT of the rule Women will still consume erotica, romance novels, thirst over celebs, etc but somehow it doesn't count cause masturbation isn't involved. It's self serving logic to the women doing this, but unfair to the male counterpart

@Reux041 @devastatingstan @normalmaxxedaj how do you think men jerked off hundreds of years ago, before porn existed in its current form online?

@kittyrexie @devastatingstan @normalmaxxedaj If you’re a woman maybe. Men don’t work that way. We aren’t jerking off to our imagination for no fucking reason

sorry for clogging up the timeline with my keyboard warrier antics guys ill be back to ed posting soon lol

@Snukkems_Art @normalmaxxedaj also, ill accept that purposefully avoiding sexual content COULD be a fetish.... MAYBE lol, but it is absolutely not akin to a legitimate porn addiction and you know that

@kittyrexie @normalmaxxedaj Also, Consuming anything for the express purpose of NOT sexually arousing you IS a type of fetish, and catering to the express purpose of NOT consuming anything that gives you sexual feelings becomes catering to your fetish to such a degree youre just being a porn addict

@Snukkems_Art @normalmaxxedaj sure, but you and i both know that the conversation happening rn is not about the looser definition of porn. im talking about the videos online you can find on pornhub and xvideos

@kittyrexie @normalmaxxedaj If you consume anything, from literature to television shows for the purpose of activating the part of your brain that makes you feel any sort of sexual arous for pleasure. Thats porn. Youre doing the legal and scientific definition of pornography.

@Snukkems_Art @normalmaxxedaj this is pure projection. porn is not as universal as your echo chamber would have you believe

@kittyrexie @normalmaxxedaj Girl we know youre watching porn