Just a bored wife 😑

I've pondered on this for a while, and I think this is the best way i can use this app Don't be in the war room alone. We can shake down the walls of hell together! Please drop your prayer requests anonymously here👇🏼 ngl.link/loislaz

@d_ocheido Today is exactly 5 months after I got my precious gift from God through CS. I still can't lie on my belly for long hours, and I had professionals all over me. My husband's BP shot up when he saw what I experienced. The human birthing process has no shortcuts!!!

Yes I’ll admit That post about Caesarian section triggered me Because I’m a woman who was in labour for 40 hours I was given the maximum dose of oxytocin three times to induce labour and did not dilate beyond 2cm I was so mentally prepared to push out a human but my body just wouldn’t Which one should I talk about? The intense pain ripping through me every few minutes? Should I talk about how excruciating it is to have doctors check you for dilation while you’re actively in labour? Should I talk about the exhaustion? Should I talk about how that when those who have vaginal delivery have long forgotten CS moms are still grappling with wounds and pain and numbness and tingling from the anaesthetsia? I had my baby in Canada and the nurses kept asking me if I wanted a pain relief I did not want any drug to interfere I was ready to bear the pain and I did I think I have the most supportive husband in the world. He stood there every second with me. Holding my hand. Wincing as Pain coursed through me But he did not feel the pain. Not the physical one. I did. So has every woman who has gone through this When the doctors saw that my contractions were not the “good type”, they said I could get a uterine rupture, I had to be taken for a CS. And everyday I’m grateful to God for the miracle of a CS That a mother who has given her all can still have her baby and they both be fine So sir, when you have had contractions for 40 hours When you have had 7 layers of your body sliced open so you can bring forth children When you have gone months nursing a wound that is layers deep When you’ve been placed on a cold surgical table and cut 7 layers deep For some 4 times. Then come back and have this Conversation with me Thank God for your mother and the long line of women in your family that had vaginal deliveries. But no two women are the same. Don’t put that burden on the woman you would marry. A CS is not a shortcut A CS does not make a woman weak A CS does not happen because you did not pray enough or you’re unlucky A CS is a medical miracle so that women like me especially pre term moms, can come out alive from the mystery that is pregnancy and childbirth Blessings.

@Symply_rhoda1 Since pregnancy, I've been tired and I'm still tired. There's no relief 😮‍💨

When you give birth...Do you feel immediate relief like, you're not pregnant anymore ? Obviously you're probably not gonna feel back to normal but is there any type of relief ?

Nigerians, how far? We're supposed to be in the streets protesting right now 😭😩😭😩

You are not evil only because you are a witch or wizard, you are evil when you are selfish! You are evil when because of a few amount of money they have given you make you type without thinking and attack the truth and those speaking it! HOW CAN SUBSIDY BE REMOVED AND WE ARE STILL BORROWING???? WHY ARE WE PAYING TAX FOR WHAT WE ARE NOT GETTING???? Just watch, somebody who has collected some money to type without thinking will showcase themselves in the comment shortly. Just watch. Evil people without a conscience selling their future and that of their children because what they will eat now that won’t last!

@maxnonso @TDeisine Mine spiked up after childbirth. I think we react differently. I started my period after the 6 weeks mark. Yours could be different

@TDeisine Abeg oh, I want my libido just the way it is oh.😁😭

Nobody prepared me for how low my libido got after childbirth. After the usual six weeks healing stage, I noticed I don’t even want my husband to hug me, I can practically give you flying heading if you talk about sex to me. I read that the 6 weeks is just for physical healing, you have to give yourself time. That was how three months passed and I still wasn’t feeling myself, uncle did not know how to approach me because I was always looking angry. By the fifth month, I realized something was off, I don’t even want my husband anywhere close to me. I had to seek help from my doctor and truly, something was wrong.

@TDeisine Wow, we really are different! Mine spiked so high that my husband has to be around when he can because he travels a lot. My body is a whole new thing now 😊

Dear God, please turn off the Tinubu button up in heaven. It's malfunctioning down here.

As usual???? NIGERIANS WAKE TF UP!!!!

@_Thrixian Thank you God for proving you're God

AT LAST... JOHN ARUM AZI HAS BEEN SET FREE. The entire family of John Arum Azi was enveloped in overwhelming joy and relief as they welcomed him back home after enduring countless days trapped in the harrowing clutches of his kidnappers, a situation that seemed to stretch time itself and cast a shadow of despair over their lives. Anyone who has followed his story will undoubtedly remember the agonizing moment when a chilling video surfaced, showcasing what appeared to be a torture scene that rapidly spread across various social media platforms, capturing the attention and hearts of viewers worldwide. This disturbing footage was not just an abstract horror; it was a visceral reminder of the reality faced by John, and it prompted an outpouring of concern and sympathy from social media users who subsequently rallied for his release by demanding that the kidnappers return him safely to his loved ones. Today marks a significant turning point, as he is finally enjoying the freedom that had been cruelly snatched away. However, amidst the jubilation, the atmosphere on social media remains charged, with many voices urging his family to ensure that he seeks therapy and to arrange for a counseling appointment to help him navigate the psychological scars left by this traumatic ordeal. The potential for lasting effects, such as Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), looms large as a reality that cannot be overlooked, and it serves as a poignant reminder of the enduring impact such experiences can have on a person’s mental health. As a family, they are relieved and thankful for his safe return, all the while knowing that healing from this trauma is just beginning.

@hannahmuktar Confidenice speaks the loudest!!!

I have a BSc An MSc And soon to be Dr of Climate I am a researcher, with my works all over the internet Google Muktar et.al and see my publications. I have lectured in two prestigious universities including NDA and I now work in a top Govt Org. Who are you?

@IyelolaIge It's actually illegal for any foreigner to own any mining licence. They'll always have a Nigerian (whom they pay horribly) fronting as the owner.

I bought sand from Chinese men and signed a receipt written in Chinese. I was running a construction project and needed sharp sand urgently. Went to the dredging site. Sand being pumped straight from the river in large quantities. I asked who owned the operation. Chinese men bought the land. The river included. Our river. Our sand. Their business. I asked for the price. We agreed. Then they handed me a receipt. Written entirely in Chinese. I said I cannot sign what I cannot read. They said drop the sand and collect your refund. I needed that sand badly. I signed. They released the sand. I sat in my car thinking about this country.

@viton_don Yes!! I have a daughter, and she needs a father. This has limited my options, so I'm trying to find new hobbies.

@laz_lois This is both interesting and scary. So what now? You’re just going to wing it and see where it goes?

I took my time and thought about marriage. Got into it then realized it's not for me. I'm one of those people who would've been happier as a single

A biologist once figured out part of this mystery by accident, during a nap. In 1982, Jack Putz lay down under a group of mangrove trees in Costa Rica, looked up, and watched the wind slam their top branches into each other over and over. Every gust snapped off leaves and twigs. So Putz had a theory. When two trees grow close together, they sway in storms and their branches beat each other up. Over years, that beating trims back the treetops where they meet. That wear and tear carves out the gap. A 2015 study backed him up. Researchers checked the branches along these gaps and found that at least half of them had been broken in just the previous six years. Trees are getting slapped around constantly up there. But the theory falls apart in some forests. Alan Rebertus, a scientist who studied a cloud forest where winds hit over 100 kilometers an hour, compared it to sheltered forests. He expected the windy ones to have bigger gaps. They didn't. The gaps looked the same. The Malaysian camphor tree doesn't show any sign of rubbing either. It grows as tall as a 25-story building, and researchers looked carefully where the branches stopped. They found nothing. Whatever was keeping those branches apart, it wasn't physical contact. So there's a second theory, and this one is the part I love. Trees might actually sense each other. Their leaves carry a protein called phytochrome that acts like a little light meter. It notices a kind of light called far-red, which healthy leaves bounce off instead of absorbing. So if a tree's growing tip is suddenly drowning in far-red light, it knows another tree's leaves are right there. The tip stops growing in that direction. The gap forms on its own. Plants even do this politely toward relatives. Next to kin, they back off. But put them next to a stranger and they grow right up in the neighbor's face. The honest answer to what we're looking at in the sky is: we don't fully know. Probably wind in some species, light sensing in others. Plenty of trees do both at the same time. A hundred years of science and nobody has cracked it.

In 2020, a Stockholm University lab mixed sperm and egg fluid from 16 couples in a dish. Some men's sperm got pulled toward the fluid much harder than others. And in half the cases, the egg picked a stranger's sperm over the partner's. The egg releases a chemical bait. Sperm carry tiny smell sensors on their heads that pick up that bait. When the smell matches, the sperm speeds up and swims straight at the egg. When it doesn't, the sperm slows down or loses its line. The lead researcher, John Fitzpatrick, called it a chemical breadcrumb trail. The sperm race is mostly a myth. A man releases around 100 million sperm at a time. Only about 250 ever reach the egg. The rest die along the way. The vagina is acidic and kills most of them. The cervix makes thick mucus that traps them like flypaper. The womb's immune system attacks them as foreign invaders. And half of the survivors pick the wrong fallopian tube, because only one of the two tubes has the egg in it. By the time anyone even gets close, the race is already over. Then the egg picks. The egg is selecting for immune-system genes. The more different the father's immune genes are from the mother's, the wider the range of diseases their child can fight off later. So the egg favors sperm that bring more genetic diversity. Fitzpatrick thinks this could explain some of the 30% of infertility cases doctors label "unexplained." For some couples, their bodies just don't chemically match, even when everything else does. Out of 100 million sperm, your father's chemistry was the one the egg agreed to let in. Which means all of us are, in some way, the quiet outcome of a chemistry test no one studied for.

There is no painter greater than God.

Hi, sorry to interrupt your TL, but I just want to remind you that John Arum Azi, the young guy who was kidnapped on his way from Jos to Kaduna has not still been released even after ransom was paid‼️⚠️

All I can say is, be safe out there… 💔😭😭😭 Credits - Masara Kim

@zaMusbeyNe_ Lol. As a Jos girl, I know that the day their whistle sounds, they won't remember this gesture.

This happened yesterday in a small town in Delta State. As Muslims were getting ready for Jumu’ah prayers, heavy rainfall flooded the mosque and made it impossible to use. A nearby church responded immediately by opening its doors. Christian members assisted in cleaning the space, arranged mats, and warmly received their Muslim neighbors so they could observe their prayers peacefully. There was no divide, no labels, just compassion, respect, and shared humanity. It’s a powerful reminder that beyond our beliefs, we are one people.

@meemahnyako I felt very uneasy about him today, but I said a solid prayer for him. He's gonna be fine He'll be back to his loving mother's arms

Wait, let me get something straight first. So the ransom for the release of John Arum was paid two days ago and he hasn’t still been released? Isn’t it supposed to be an exchange or am I running mad⁉️