Lothien Ithilorien

Gonna just drop a new pin for this one…

Your wife should be your personal oracle, sharing all her crazy dreams and impressions and intuitions with you. Whilst also analysing people using logic, cunning and wisdom. Always aligned with you, protecting you in her own way. Cute cunning oracle wife.

I have it as a core political principle that I should not have my rights restricted because of stupid people

@Nyct0phil3_x @JasonKPargin 1+hours late…? That’s a lot. I’m definitely chronically 5-15 minutes late, I really try to do too much in too short of time and that derails my plans to be early. But 1+ hours and all the time?? That’s difficult to imagine.

@JasonKPargin Chronically late by 5 to 15 minutes, I can understand. Executive function issues and caring responsibilities etc 1+ hours all the time? Disrespectful.

My most uncharitable belief is that if you're chronically late to things, you're just a bad person. And I mean I don't think it's possible to routinely be late to events/work/appointments *unless* you're just a selfish person with no concern for anyone else.

@Nyct0phil3_x I keep thinking about you all, especially him. This is such an awful thing to experience so young. But I believe this too shall pass & he’ll be back to making memories that he cherishes w/ you all again. I pray his upcoming visits & resulting treatments are prompt & effective.

This was taken a week before he fell ill. He was so happy to play in the snow. The second photo was 2025, playing family D&D. These feel like different lifetimes now. I would give almost anything to have another day with him like these.

J asked to use the notes app on a phone to make a list - he's too exhausted to write physically. The list was called "my memories" and was of things he used to enjoy before he was ill. "In case I forget. Because I can't remember things anymore" It took him hours.

@LadyDemosthenes She’s insanely controlling & so are the women supporting her. She has every excuse in the world as to why husbands have to do everything to their specifications or they’re just terrible divorce-able refuse but not 1 offers to reciprocate w/what their husbands need much less want

Giving your loved one an ultimatum is not healthy. That is not love. That is holding things together by way of threat and creates a power imbalance. Once an ultimatum is placed, you are no longer a team. You are no longer partners. You have made your spouse subservient to your ultimatum. “Change or I’ll leave you” is not setting boundaries, it’s a threat. When children are involved it includes “I’m taking the children with me.” An involved father will stay for the children, but that marriage is no longer a healthy one.

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@Nyct0phil3_x @HistoryUnd You are not

@HistoryUnd Am I the only one who sees Eva Green?

A woman from 1903 getting photographed for the first time.

@seashell_luvr Me too, very very sad. I’d hate it. Not him needing time alone just that it’s a secret & that that’s the “highlight” of his week. I don’t think I’m built this way because how is that the highlight. It’s a great reset but the best part of his week is getting away from her?

This would make me sad and I don’t believe in keeping compartmentalized secrets like this, but I do believe modern cohabitation starves a relationship of mystique and inspiration. Living things need room to breathe. Lovers must intentionally create their own sanctuaries and private routines, maybe even take the occasional solo pilgrimage or quest, not to create distance but to return with something. To gather more tinsel and baubles for the magpie nest, more fuel for the fire.

@Nyct0phil3_x @Corbienest I’m mean but I cannot stand this woman & the neurotic mess of an audience. Her message is cortisol inducing, she’s disdainful & I don’t think she’s a good person, nor are the women who love this stuff. Advice from either will only get you what she’s got and gods forbid it please.

@Corbienest Idk why people seem so averse to just talking to their husband/wife. If you find something hard and want their help just ask them?!

The other issue I have with this video is it isn’t accomplishing much, other than getting women to agree. If you want people to change behavior, alienating the group you would like to do things differently is poor communication and counter productive.

Video games get unnecessary hate. I realize I’m a small minority on the RW adjacent side because I’ve always been pro video games but for good reason. Gamers have immaculate taste in the arts. Scrolling your phone is infinitely worse than playing a video game. I’ll never forget the first time I played Pokémon red version with my dad. It was a great bonding activity as a kid and instilled a competitive nature that helped me in all aspects of my life. Or playing “The Last of Us” with my husband. Watching him discover video games for the first time through “Skyrim.” Working with Nintendo at E3 each year to battle people from all over the world in the new Super Smash Brothers game. The hatred of video games is a hatred of the best art of our generation. The most talented composers have gone to video games. The best storylines come from video games. All of the top creatives have gone to video games and they do infinitely more in revenue than the most successful films. Playing video games from the age of 7-10, helped me in school. It made testing and memorization effortless. What does DNA stand for? “Deoxyribonucleic Acid” obviously because Deoxys is the DNA pokémon. What was the coin used in Ancient Greece? Drachma. I played “Assassin’s Creed Odyssey.” Scrolling on social media can destroy your creativity. It turns you into a consumer instead of a creator. Whereas video games require decision making and you to use your reflexes. Also Tifa Lockhart from Final Fantasy is one of the most likable female characters ever. I WISH Hollywood would take note!

@marlbdesperado @brdmoedr I genuinely have developed severe social anxiety and a fear of being perceived due to this exact mentality. I never did anything wrong as a kid, it's just nerve wracking that your every movie is being watched, and that a single misstep would be magnified.

@brdmoedr It’s insane to me how “you should have no problem with constant surveillance if you aren’t doing anything wrong” has become a popular take amongst a wide spectrum of ideologies

so this is called agoraphobia and it actually explains a lot about this app

@lexisoupertramp My parents were like this and my friends had to teach me how to cross an intersection at 14 cause they never let me outside except for school

@Nyct0phil3_x Umm… somebody come get their dad, he’s engaging in his humiliation fetish on main…

@MegKeene @Ruesavatar I don’t care, I don’t want to be tracked. People are nosy & I don’t want to be surprised by everyone & big tech too. I don’t care I’m not a Pokémon. But I think I’ve dealt w/too many controlling people and I can’t pretend that doesn’t exist now. It feels like normalized stalking.

I survived a coercive control relationship where he had to know where I was all the time. Healing for me is to be able to opt out of sharing my location and have it be no big deal. I know that’s WAY heavier than average, but good reasons to not share do exist! Also, for most of my life sharing locations wasn’t possible and we were all fine, so it’s not stressful for my husband or I not to share.

Just read some comments and QTS. I find it funny that y’all will share your location with every big tech firm as well as allow them to track all your activity and harvest your data, no problem, but then draw the line at your loved ones knowing where you are. 💀

Ah! Okay so… ✍️date✍️ Italians✍️ got it📝

@seashell_luvr Pleasure and abundance for sure

I love pleasure

@seashell_luvr You’re so ethereal and sassy

roll ur eyes

@Nyct0phil3_x @Anuu837146755 Yeah actually ladstwt & Reddit are… always fighting & losing their minds. It’s two sides too, everyone in the middle get screwed. There’s the ultra vanilla that can’t stand *any* edge…. Then there’s the “I want to fuck my bother” crowd that hates that people are offput by that.

@Anuu837146755 I can remember being a literal child and deliberately digging my nails into my gums because I enjoyed the sensation. I had NO IDEA what kinks or sex or BDSM was. I just knew I found it relaxing. Some of this stuff is sensory (look at how many kink people are ND lololol)

kinks aren't independent thoughts, having environmental and sociological undertones. In this Man's world, not every kink born in women is entirely theirs. Stop thinking a woman making decisions makes it automatically feminist or a choice, when the undertone could be misogyny.