mathyouf

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mathyouf

@mathyouf

Co-host of The Love Symposium Working on Psychometrics and Relationship Outcome Prediction

San Fransisco, Tokyo, etc. Katılım Ekim 2025

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mathyouf@mathyouf·2h

I'm in my compounding era A key tip: pick friends/places based on genuine affinity, and then help them rise up

Will Manidis@WillManidis

the greatest regret i have is underestimating the value of long term compounding. friendships, people, places, all get better with decades. beautiful things dont even start to reveal themselves for years. it is entirely what life is about. a few good things for a long time.

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mathyouf@mathyouf·3h

@AaronBergman18 Just wanted to say as an expert that having extremely specific preferences actually does work out and you should follow this thread to maximizing chances of finding these people.

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Aaron Bergman 🔍 ⏸️ (in that order)@AaronBergman18·4h

All evidence suggests that my future wife will be an Indian or Jewish bisexual woman currently 19-28, height 5'0"-5'2", with high functioning autism, an IQ of >=130, and living in the US Claude says that's 10 people, Gemini says 25 I could totally meet all of them

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mathyouf@mathyouf·23h

No matter what ray peat says I'm just not going to drink orange juice or eat ice cream.

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mathyouf@mathyouf·1d

The future of human computer interaction from: r/claudecode by bharms27

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mathyouf@mathyouf·1d

I recommend asking Claude the concepts in these 4 writings, it helped me a lot. The French Art of Not Trying Too Hard Book by Ollivier Pourriol Beyond Self-interest: Why the Market Rewards Those who Reject it Book by Krzysztof J. Pelc THE MUNDANITY OF EXCELLENCE: ANETHNOGRAPHIC REPORT ON STRATIFICATION AND OLYMPIC SWIMMERS DANIEL F. CHAMBLISS Why Greatness Cannot Be Planned: The Myth of the Objective Book by Joel Lehman and Kenneth Stanley

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Ari Zerner@AriZerner·1d

One of my heuristics is "no yearning". If I catch myself yearning for something, I have to take some action towards it.

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mathyouf@mathyouf·1d

Have you asked yourself "what if this isn't hype?"

Space and Technology@spaceandtech_

A robotics startup in Shenzhen called Mind On has upgraded the Unitree G1 humanoid with an advanced robot brain. With this upgrade, the robot can perform everyday tasks on its own without human control. It was shown watering plants, opening curtains, cleaning, and moving items independently.

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mathyouf@mathyouf·1d

@jakozloski There must be some people for whom starting later is better. I imagine some tragic marriage outcomes are avoidable. Do you ever screen for people who just aren't fit for marriage due to immaturity?

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Jake Kozloski@jakozloski·1d

We haven't been around long enough to observe this in our own data yet (and frankly I haven't dug into this) but the literature says youth, low self-knowledge, and high openness as predictors of more ranking volatility. Personality stabilizes a lot by ~25. We never tell someone to wait if they think they're ready. Starting matters more than optimizing, as long as the underlying alignment is strong.

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Jake Kozloski@jakozloski·1d

Everyone has more than one 'soulmate'. Obviously true. But there's also a single most ideal match for every person on earth. Ties aren't really a thing.

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mathyouf@mathyouf·1d

@jakozloski Have you noticed any traits in people who are significantly more or less likely to have major compatibility ranking updates over time? If someone likely to have major updates comes to you and wants to marry, what do you think is the best way to handle that scenario?

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Jake Kozloski@jakozloski·1d

@mathyouf What matters is the integral across your life. Good relationships compound, so a small edge in initial compatibility becomes a larger area over time. A shift in relative rankings matters less than beginning that compounding as soon as you're ready.

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mathyouf@mathyouf·1d

@47fucb4r8c69323 @DefenderOfBasic How dare you correct me, and with a lie no less.

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47fucb4r8curb4fc8f8r4bfic8r@47fucb4r8c69323·1d

@mathyouf @DefenderOfBasic I am not responsible for what my counterparty does.

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mathyouf@mathyouf·1d

If you're going to be unkind you have to rely on the counter party recognizing the truth value in what you're saying. Some people don't really believe that any truths are locked behind unkindness.

Avi@AviFelman

Once again this graph has a hold on me

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mathyouf@mathyouf·2d

Intersting framing, especially the claim that our society is currently apolonian

Matthew Pines@matthew_pines

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mathyouf@mathyouf·2d

incredible

Reva Jariwala@reva_jariwala

how is this a class? absolutely insane line-up

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mathyouf@mathyouf·3d

@toro_minato All noise is information if you are smart enough to comprehend the processes that generate it.

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とろ港区@toro_minato·3d

ちなみにIQが高い人ほど他人に興味が無くて、IQが低い人ほど他人に興味深々。ゴシップや人の噂好きな人は全員IQ低い(らしい) 理由は頭が良い人にとって他人の情報なんて、無駄でしかないし非合理的すぎるから。

とろ港区@toro_minato

IQが高すぎる人の発信は、100人に1人の「超有識者」には深く刺さるが、残りの99人には届かない。統計学的に、IQが15以上離れると意思疎通が急激に困難になるらしい。 IQが高すぎると、無意識に言葉が抽象化され、大衆には「難解な呪文」に聞こえてしまう。高IQだからSNSが上手いわけではない

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mathyouf@mathyouf·3d

High iq people are natural anthropologists If you're smart enough you start to realize there is no such thing as noise, only ever information

とろ港区@toro_minato

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mathyouf@mathyouf·3d

Infinite Play

tautologer@tautologer

childhood is the optimal state. the teleology of mankind is to produce more childhood

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mathyouf@mathyouf·3d

Leaning this way

LAN@lansification

irl communities > dating apps dating has become self-humiliation. instead, find a community for shared experiences and rituals

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mathyouf@mathyouf·3d

Omar Sameh Shehata (Defender) x.com/i/broadcasts/1…

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mathyouf@mathyouf·4d

The link will be live on my account here at the time above. If you have any questions for Defender you can also post them here in this thread!

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mathyouf@mathyouf·4d

Hello everyone! At 1pm EST/10am PST I'll be interviewing @DefenderOfBasic for my podcast. It'll also be live streamed on X and we will be taking input from the audience. We will be discussing cultural research, prosocial engineering, and how beliefs propogate socially.

Defender@DefenderOfBasic

I am very excited for my podcast with @mathyouf on Monday. I'm gonna talk about the business I've been running. If I had to explain it in one sentence I'm talking about how to permanently fix this situation

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@AaronBergman18 @jakozloski @47fucb4r8c69323 @DefenderOfBasic @toro_minato @elonmusk @BarackObama @taylorswift13