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Authoritarians silence debate, leaders encourage it. Policy is what matters. Politicians are not our betters. None are heroes. None deserve worship.

United States เข้าร่วม Eylül 2020
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Bethany S. Mandel
Bethany S. Mandel@bethanyshondark·
As the Times forced Lyndsey to jump through these hoops, they simultaneously published non-credible and non-verified accounts of rape by Israeli dogs in their pages.
Lyndsey Fifield@lyndseyfifield

I bucked all advice from my friends (and resisted my conservative bias) and decided to fully trust the Times journalists. As they left my home they asked that I not talk to any other outlets and I insisted then and repeatedly over the following weeks that I would keep my word and only share this story with them. But then the weeks dragged on. They kept coming back to us saying the editors needed more. I needed to go on the record (okay). We need more screenshots (okay). I met every bench mark they set, eager to provide more sources or evidence as needed. After the story went up I began to ask them … wait, where are the stories from the other women? Where are their accusations of sexual assault? Why am I the focus? Why are there 11 paragraphs dedicated to detailing my work history (more than has been published about Graham’s by far)? Why does it say “nobody could corroborate” when I offered them sources that COULD corroborate? Why did they include an out of context quote from a friend joking “do not call Graham” after I called off my wedding? (Because she knew I would never). Where were the screenshots they’d said they would use? Or the mention that I’d supported local democrats and that most of my family (and husband) are liberal? The editors said it was too much, they explained. The Times also failed to include any mention that I DID confide in multiple friends through the years that Graham had been abusive — long before he was running for office. Those friends confirm they told the Times so. It dawned on me that this really was a set up all along. The journalists I trusted who convinced me to share a story I never wanted to tell methodically delayed and twisted this into a gift to the Platner campaign. Violating the trust of his victims. Shattering the trust I placed in them with the most vulnerable story of my life. And at the end of my call with them I reluctantly accepted their insistence that this was still a powerful story and that I had done a brave thing. And I thanked them for all the hard work they had put into it. Still fawning after all these years.

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Lyndsey Fifield
Lyndsey Fifield@lyndseyfifield·
Anyone who has ever extracted themselves from a relationship with a narcissistic abuser knows it isn’t clean or easy. I cringe remembering how many times I tried to play the “cool girl” or fawn in response to what was clearly abusive, coercively controlling behavior by Graham. I also know how dangerous it is to become the target of a narcissist — so even long after our relationship ended I continued to be upbeat any time he reached out, though I would also immediately shut down any attempts on his part to initiate flirting or romanticizing of the past. Yes, the day I saw him announce he was running I wanted to make sure people knew he had a Nazi tattoo — and I was terrified he would find out it was me. But of course he knew it was me. What’s ironic is I absolutely never would have shared my story if he hadn’t been relentlessly attacking my character behind the scenes for months once the tattoo story came out. I tried to signal that I wasn’t the source and stayed completely silent about him on social media even as most of my friends posted regularly about what a bad person he is. But then in early April the New York Times came to me. I asked how they got my number. I said I was not interested in sharing my story. They said but wait—there are other women. Women terrified to tell their stories, too, and you need to band together. WE will help you. We will protect you. Men can’t keep getting away with this. Hours before their first call to me I saw Eric Swalwell’s name plate get removed from his office door in Cannon. It felt like fate. I welcomed the two journalists into my home days later, nervous and overwhelmed. Justin Fairfax had just murdered his wife and himself the previous day and even conservative pundits were conjecturing that “if only those women hadn’t accused him of abuse, this never would have happened…” But I told them my story. I let them take pictures of my diary pages. I sent them screenshots of messages and gave them phone numbers and contacts. It was excruciating. I was surprised by what details I remembered, and as I poured through old messages I was horrified by how much I had forgotten. I explained very clearly that, like many women abused by their partners, I had not told anyone about his violence at the time—I had covered for and defended it. I accepted his earnest apologies. They said that’s fine because the diary entries and my on the record story was enough. They connected me to two of the other victims so we wouldn’t feel so alone. I insisted to each of them that I trusted the NYT journalists and that we were doing the right thing despite their (sadly very accurate) sense that something was wrong. One of the victims and I realized our relationships with Graham overlapped completely - he had been cheating on both of us the entire time we were together. I should note here that my life is just… beautiful. These are the best years of my life. Raising two young girls in a safe, beautiful neighborhood where I work from home and shuffle my children from dance classes and soccer to church events — I am blessed far beyond what I deserve with wonderful friends and family and the most loving, brilliant husband in the world. Why would I blow my life up like this? Why would I risk the psychotic doxxing from violent leftist activists? Because while I have been terrified to come forward I decided this was the “hard right thing” to do. The guilt of staying silent has nagged me. Most therapists recommend a “gray rock” approach to extracting yourself from narcissistic abuse — it works really well, but it is a gift to the abuser, allowing them to persist in their delusion that they’ve done nothing wrong. I couldn’t stay silent as he continued to lie and lie and lie. I want my daughters to boldly speak out if they’re ever abused as I was.
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Lyndsey Fifield
Lyndsey Fifield@lyndseyfifield·
@CorieWhalen Thankfully I'm connected to two of them and we're deciding what to do next. They're much more vulnerable than me and it's not an easy decision considering what NYT just did to us/me.
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Matt Stoller
Matt Stoller@matthewstoller·
Running uncorroborated claims on Platner from an ex-girlfriend who is a professional Republican operative is outrageous from the New York Times. It's consistent with their biased treatment of candidates skeptical of Israel.
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Tamara66949263@Tamara39224·
We were laughing at the guy taking the picture!
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Symone D. Sanders Townsend
Symone D. Sanders Townsend@SymoneDSanders·
Planter’s campaign did not deny the allegations about him getting physical to the New York Times, but Platner is repeatedly denying it on MS NOW. Why didn’t they deny it in the piece?
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Collin Rugg
Collin Rugg@CollinRugg·
Internet users raise nearly $150,000 for an 85-year-old elderly AMC worker after a video of her working went viral. Mary Ellen Eron of Maryville, Tennessee, was seen on camera hauling a heavy garbage bag. "Let’s secretly help retire this beautiful woman. No one deserves to work at this age," said Brooklyn Green, the woman who captured the moment. "I am overwhelmed and certainly blessed from the Lord and you wonderful people. Thank you," Mary said. Over 7500 people donated before donations were paused.
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Cody
Cody@kaicyr21·
@CollinRugg I’m pro life, but this is definitely the one caveat for me. I’m not going to bring a disabled, parasitic child into this world that will never be able to meaningfully contribute to the work force. Sorry. Call me evil all you want, if it makes you feel more altruistic.
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Collin Rugg
Collin Rugg@CollinRugg·
YouTuber Jesse Ridgway and his wife abort their child after finding out the baby had Down syndrome. Ridgway cited that they chose to kill the baby after deciding that he and his wife didn't want to be inconvenienced with a child with Down syndrome. "Things have been pretty dark for a while for us, and we felt this was gonna be a nice little ray of sunshine, and it's not." Horrific and selfish. An estimated 67% - 85% of pregnancies in the U.S. with a Down syndrome diagnosis are aborted. This is evil. Don't let anyone convince you otherwise.
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Raj
Raj@rajboshmahal·
@bonchieredstate @BlameBigGovt I don't think they care, how does this damage the democrats? Two weeks after the election people will forget who platner is anyway and the media won't hold sanders or bulwark accountsble
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Krystal Ball
Krystal Ball@krystalball·
NYT published uncorroborated accusations against @grahamformaine of “unsettling” and “toxic” behavior that came from a Heritage staffer who previously worked for a conservative org that backs Collins.
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Kimberly Ross
Kimberly Ross@SouthernKeeks·
Members of the Democratic Party will fall all over themselves to defend Graham Platner, an actual example of toxic masculinity, while trying to convince conservatives that traditional, positive masculinity is poison.
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🦋the-michael-datson.bsky.social🦋
Here’s why so many Maine constituents have a problem with this. When you’re interviewing someone for a job, do you also seek out their past partners and interview them about their relationships? Obviously no, you don’t. It very clearly has nothing to do with their ability to perform the job they are applying for. This is borderline harassment and certainly a stain on your journalistic integrity. Shame on you.
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The New York Times
The New York Times@nytimes·
Three women who dated Graham Platner, the Democratic candidate for Senate in Maine, told The New York Times they found his actions intimidating and disturbing, describing volatile relationships. nyti.ms/4dRPvLm
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Politics & Poll Tracker 📡
Politics & Poll Tracker 📡@PollTracker2024·
John Fetterman tells CNN that it’s time for Maine Democrats to back Janet Mills over Platner Fetterman to CNN: “I think what's time is is for Maine voters to take a look at the sitting governor, an honorable woman, and that is a committed Democrat that's already won statewide”
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rebeccaars
rebeccaars@Rebeccaars·
@MSNOWComms @chrislhayes @grahamformaine @allinwithchris @MSNOWNews MS NOW has spent the entire week hammering Graham Platner to Democrats’ detriment. If his campaign collapses, Democrats will have another 6 years of Susan Collins, whose voting record aligns with Trump. Whatever questions remain about Platner, the alternative is worse.
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