Dan Rosenberg
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Dan Rosenberg
@DVRinChicago
Book editor and publisher. Father. Ex-gym rat. Conceived in Canada; born in Ohio; now in Chicago.
Illinois, USA Katılım Ocak 2021
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NEW NGO REPORT: Madeline Mann, a @UCSF administrator caught on video threatening to kill @bourne_beth2345 for being critical of trans surgeries on children, is married to woke podcaster Merlin Mann — and together they transitioned their daughter at age 15. thepostmillennial.com/andy-ngo-repor…
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@BradPowers7 Cig tried to check in at 2:55 when the correct check-in time is 3:00
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@GrammarTable I could say either. To my ear, slight differences between the two deictically: "coming" suggests we're already together and going for the sushi soon; "going" works better when we're apart at the moment of speaking and when we might be getting the sushi in a few hours, or tomorrow
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@antialienationp The very idea of co-parenting is offensive to narcissistic parents, because it means they have to share credit for raising the child. Narcissists categorically do not share credit for anything. And I suppose vlogging and "influencing" attract a decent number of narcissists.
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Let's discuss a disturbing trend I've been noticing online — influencers and mommy vloggers using their co-parenting struggles and personal family drama as clickbait for profit.
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@ManOnTheGreen @cdonosowriter @MerriamWebster @jmb @GrammarTable @bossproofreader I plead ignorance. pok-er for the metal rod makes sense because it helps a rapid reader recognize the verb root poke; similarly, M-W has mak-er, wip-er, and so on. But I have no idea how the decision is made for po-ker over pok-er for the card game.
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@cdonosowriter @MerriamWebster In which case, my question would be, “What in particular determines the apparently differing morphologies of ‘po·ker’ and ‘pok·er’ (and would copywriters really distinguish between the two when setting permissible line breaks)?” @jmb @GrammarTable @DVRinChicago @bossproofreader
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@Rondowriter @GrammarTable What do you say here?
'She brought me a bunch of grapes and I thanked her profusely for [it/them]'
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@GrammarTable It seems that three quarters of people simply can't parse a sentence correctly any more. "A bunch" is the subject and it is a singular noun. Full stop. The answer is "passes".
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@marcpuck @GrammarTable Similar here. Usually 'grocery store.' Sometimes 'supermarket.' Never 'Tim.'
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@GrammarTable I'd say 'supermarket', depending, because I alternate 'grocery store' and 'supermarket'. Don't ask. 😀
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@GrammarTable Strong team either. In AmEng at least, a bunch of often means a lot of, a large number of (“A bunch of bills were passed in the Senate last week”) and gets a plural verb. If the dogs are in a ragtag procession, I lean “pass”; if they are in a packlike clump, I lean “passes”
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@JonathanShedler 4/different from the folk-wisdom truism that it's often easier to tear others down than to build oneself up. Third, and last, I want to emphasize, again from my limited perspective, how pernicious and dangerous the malignant narcissist's desire to vanquish someone can be. It ...
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@JonathanShedler 3/vanquish (your word from your post # 2/ above) is the cause of all evil. Second, I think many malignant narcissists devote more energy, even obsessive energy, to demeaning and vanquishing their chosen enemies than to dramatizing their own grandiose self. This is not much ...
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@karenmitchell__ A big red flag is when #7 just happens to take place on the eve or morning of an important day for you. It took me years to notice this pattern.
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@karenmitchell__ If I may …
6. “Accidentally” “losing” or “misplacing” things (such as cards or documents, keys, tools, clothing items) that are important to your conduct of your life.
7. Interfering, often in subtle ways, with your sleep, making you too tired to function optimally.
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High functioning narcissists/psychopaths often derail a target in many small, subtle ways.
Do not be deceived though. My data indicates they are just as interested in destruction of others as those in prison for murder, they just know to be covert because their freedom is so important to them.
For those unaware of the red flags, destructive behaviours may seem inconsequential like:
1. Claiming not to be aware of something that you know was discussed.
2. Blocking, postponing decisions, milestones that are important to you.
3. Making subtle demeaning comments seemingly balanced with a positive comment.
4. Using very subtle intimidation.
5. Lying.
When a seemingly inconsequential behaviour is part of a long-standing pattern of behaviours that cause anxiety, distress, humiliation, loss of confidence, that the likelihood is of a dark personality.
We often tend to make excuses for people when we see these destructive patterns of behaviour. We may attribute destructive patterns of behaviour to being tired or incompetence or lack of concentration or being passive aggressive.
To accept the reality that someone is supremely self-interested at the cost of all else and genuinely enjoys the process of controlling, disadvantaging, and demeaning others (but is able to create a compelling false facade), is hard to accept and somewhat depressing.
Looking at the world through rose coloured glasses, however, is done at your peril! The data indicates these people are not able to change, nor do they want to.
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@GrammarTable Usually not. But occasionally yes. A 300-page history of Russia can be said to be concise, because there are 800- and 1000-word versions out there. Yet a 300-page book is not a brief book, as books go.
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