Miriam Grossman MD

The hidden victims of the trans catastrophe are parents. Their trauma doesn't end. Their health deteriorates. Betrayed by doctors and therapists, many avoid seeking help. My mission is to bring national attention to this issue. @donoharm @ACPeds @elonmusk

@LeorSapir @maryricehasson Oh Leor, this is unspeakably horrible and I am so sorry. Baruch dayan emet.

Gaia was my cousin’s daughter. A beautiful soul with her whole life ahead of her. The light of her father’s life. She was the best of us. ברוך דיין האמת

@ErinFriday75490 @KHDooley This is so lovely, Happy Birthday to you both 😍

Tomorrow, my mother and I celebrate our birthdays. She always placed family first, as do I.

@ErinFriday75490 @dropalltables @AmerAcadPeds @UCSFHospitals Her day is coming.

The @AmerAcadPeds also has forms asking children about their sexual orientation and gender identity with an open category for the kid to write in one of the infinite number of genders @UCSFHospitals very own Diane Ehrensaft says exists. Enrensaft was one of the idiot Pyschologist who pushed the BS Satanic Panic movement too. How she didn’t lose her license is beyond me.

The state of California will soon force VC firms to ask founders for their sexual orientation. W.T.F. No government should ever compel people to discuss who they have sex with. Especially in the workplace.

@afshineemrani Many many thanks for taking the time to write all this. What a gift for us. Shabbat shalom.

A man sat across from me in the ER, grey-faced, gripping the side of the gurney. He was fifty-three. Successful. Ran a mid-size company. He was certain he was dying — chest pounding, vision narrowing, a pressure behind his sternum that made him call his wife from the office bathroom floor. His EKG was normal. Troponins negative. Echo clean. Stress test unremarkable. By every measure we had, his heart was fine. But when I asked him to walk me through his morning, the picture changed fast. He told me that within seconds of waking — before his feet even hit the floor — his brain was already running a threat inventory. The vendor who hadn’t called back. A scratch on his daughter’s car he hadn’t dealt with. A comment his partner made at dinner three nights ago that he was still turning over in his mind. By 6:15 a.m., his jaw was clenched. By 7:00, the invisible weight was fully on his chest. He wasn’t having a heart attack. He was having a life attack. His body had been absorbing the cumulative cost of treating every minor imperfection as an emergency — for years — and it was now sending him invoices he couldn’t ignore. I think about him all the time. Because he’s not unusual. He’s most of us. There’s a line buried in the Torah that set off one of the more fascinating rabbinic debates I’ve come across. God promises to bless “your bread and your water.” But the ancient rabbis flagged an inconsistency: bread is substantial. Water is almost nothing. Why would God pair them? Their conclusion was that “water” here is code for wine — a drink worthy of sitting alongside bread. So the promise is really: God will bless your bread and your wine. Then comes the line that stops me cold every time I read it: Anyone for whom wine does not spill in the home like water is not included in blessing. One rabbi, the Rama, took this at face value. Spill a bit of wine each week as a ritual. Simple enough. But a second rabbi — the Taz — saw something buried much deeper. He argued this has nothing to do with ritually spilling anything. It’s a psychological diagnosis centuries ahead of its time. The Taz said: if someone spills expensive wine in your house and you erupt — if your blood pressure spikes, your tone shifts, and the room goes cold — you have locked the door on blessing. It cannot reach you. Not because God withheld it, but because you have no vessel to hold it. Your inner container is already full — of reactivity, of tension, of the low hum of outrage at a world that won’t cooperate with your expectations. But if wine is “like water” in your eyes — if you can watch a deep red Bordeaux hit white carpet and your first instinct is to grab a towel instead of an accusation — something inside you is open. Spacious. And that spaciousness is the blessing itself. I can’t read this without thinking about what modern neuroscience and stress physiology have confirmed. The amygdala — your brain’s smoke detector — doesn’t distinguish well between a house fire and a spilled drink. It sends the same cascade either way: cortisol, adrenaline, inflammatory cytokines. Your prefrontal cortex — the part that says wait, this is just wine — can override that alarm, but only if it’s been trained to. In people with chronic stress reactivity, that override gets weaker over time. The alarm starts winning every round. A study in PNAS found that people with exaggerated stress responses to ordinary daily hassles showed significantly higher levels of systemic inflammation — the kind linked to heart disease, autoimmune flare-ups, and accelerated aging. Not from tragedy. From accumulation. From a thousand spilled wines treated like catastrophes. This is the part that haunts me: you can have everything — the career, the family, the health, the resources — and still be unreachable by your own good fortune because your nervous system is too busy scanning for the next scratch, the next slight, the next thing that’s slightly off. The blessing is right there. You’re just not home to receive it. I’ve started doing something embarrassingly simple. When I feel my chest tighten over something — a plan falling through, an irritating email, one of my kids turning the living room into something that looks like a crime scene — I ask myself one question: Is this wine, or is this water? Meaning: is this actually significant? Or does it just feel significant because my nervous system is pattern-matching it to a threat? The answer, almost every time, is water. It’s just water. And here’s what I’ve noticed. The moment I see it as water, my shoulders drop about half an inch. My breathing slows. The thing that felt urgent thirty seconds ago is suddenly just... a thing. A towel-and-move-on thing. And the evening I almost lost to frustration comes back to me — intact, usable, mine. The Taz never said blessed people don’t encounter spilled wine. He assumed the wine would spill. That’s the price of admission for being alive. Mess is not a malfunction. It’s the texture of every single day. The question he’s asking is brutally simple: when the glass tips over — and it will, today, tomorrow, and the day after that — are you going to let a $40 bottle of wine cost you a night of your one unrepeatable life? Because the wine can be replaced. The money can be recovered. The reputation can be rebuilt. But the forty-five minutes you spent clenched and seething about something that won’t matter by Friday? Those minutes are extinct. You don’t get a receipt. There is no refund window. The spills are coming regardless. They are not optional. But your suffering over them is. And somewhere in that gap — between the glass tipping and your response — is the entire difference between a life spent clenching and a life spent living. That gap is the blessing. Learn to live there. Shabbat Shalom.

Parents beware!

@kellyske @dcexaminer Thanks for exposing this. PP has been recruiting kids into their dark ideology, and undermining parents, for decades. Remove your children from government schools and stay vigilant!

"...this model functionally creates: a School-to-Planned Parenthood Pipeline... This is not partnership with families—it is substitution for them." My @dcexaminer op-ed on, "How Community Schools became a Planned Parenthood pipeline" ⬇️ washingtonexaminer.com/op-eds/4444833…

@BrentScher @realDailyWire @MegEBrock Meg you’re off to a great start, we appreciate you!

First byline from @realDailyWire’s newest investigative reporter @MegEBrock Why The Shift From Major Medical Groups On Trans Surgeries Really Matters  dailywire.com/news/why-the-s…

@detransaqua That must be awful. If you have frequent nightmares, visualize a different ending before you fall asleep. Imagine that this time you’ll have agency and take control and get what you need. Imagine the guilty being held accountable and how sweet that will be.

Rough night. Nightmares about trapped milk and betrayal.

@ErinFriday75490 @AGRobBonta @CAgovernor @TonyThurmond “Children do not belong to the state, they belong to families” - FINALLY a truth bomb from DOE, we want more of this please.

Your move @AGRobBonta @CAgovernor @TonyThurmond If you want to know how the Feds got all of the evidence they needed, look no further than the parent groups. You tried every way to shut us up but no one fights to the death like a scorned parent. There are thousands of us sitting behind our computers, cataloging your deeds, screen shooting evidence, setting up traps, synthesizing data, submitting public records requests. You don’t know all of our names but the ignored parents are the ones who will pick you off - one by one - through legal channels. ed.gov/about/news/pre…

@ErinFriday75490 @AGRobBonta @CAgovernor @TonyThurmond 💪💪💪💪💪

@SwipeWright Incredibly moving and perfectly written. I pray this goes viral and reaches as many youth as possible. Thank you Colin.

For my entire adult life, I was certain I'd never want children. Then, without warning, that certainty shattered. This is a very personal story about how I went from seeing children as a kind of ending to seeing them as the deepest beginning imaginable. x.com/SwipeWright/st…

This essay is magnificent. Thank you Colin for opening your heart. Take it from this grandma, you are 💯 correct.

@MegEBrock @DailyCaller You’re going to move on to bigger and better things! Because you’re amazing and courageous.

Yesterday was my last day at the @DailyCaller News Foundation. I’m very thankful for all I’ve learned over the past 2.5 years and to have worked such wonderful colleagues! Looking forward to what’s ahead!

@Jilliantweeting Can I come?

Save the date: 28 April 2026, Supreme Court of Brisbane. A judicial review of the Termination Letter sent to me by the Queensland Children's Hospital for speaking up about the harm to children from gender interventions: 1. Did the hospital adequately consider my implied right to freedom of political expression under the constitution 2. Did the hospital adequately consider my right to freedom of expression under the Human Rights Act. @TimNichollsMP @DavidCrisafulli @JarrodBleijieMP @DebFrecklington @Mark_Butler_MP

@JanJekielek @ErinFriday75490 Thank you @janjekielek for having the great @ErinFriday75490 on your show. I look forward to seeing the entire episode.

“She wouldn't call her daughter a male, and CPS (Child Protective Services) took her child.” Parents in Southern California lost custody of their children because they opposed their child’s gender transition, says California-based attorney @ErinFriday75490. And once CPS has placed them into a foster family, California’s Foster Care Bill of Rights allows minors to undergo sex-rejecting procedures without parental consent, Friday added. Friday joined legal battles against CPS and the state of California after her own 13-year old daughter was socially transitioned at school without her knowledge. Today, she’s the co-lead of the parent support network Our Duty, a group that helps parents navigate the same ordeals her family faced. @OurDutyGrp “The worst position a parent could be in is knowing that the government is coming after you because you believe in biological sex. You want to raise your daughter as a daughter that you know you birthed. …No human has ever changed sex, and you have the government telling you: ‘No, you're abusive. You don't get to parent your child. The government knows better.’ This is America. This is insane.”

@EithanHaim @elonmusk @BurkeLawTweets Congratulations Eithan, this news made my day. I pray the process goes smoothly, you get an honest fearless judge, and the guilty held accountable for their heinous acts. Please let me know if I can help in any way!

I am eternally grateful for @elonmusk, X Corp, and the legal teams at Schaer Jaffe and Burke Law Group (@BurkeLawTweets) for supporting me in this effort. The only way I was able to fight back against an unjust prosecution was to tell the truth. And the only way for people to see the truth was because of X. For this reason, they have proven themselves to be an incalculable force for good at a time when it's most important. Most of all, I owe my deepest gratitude to Marcella Burke, the person who has stood by me from the very beginning. She took the greatest risk in representing me and endlessly sacrificed for the next two years. It's not enough to say she is my lawyer, but rather a guardian angel. She is the reason my wife has her husband and my daughter, her father.

@burnyourbinder Claire, thanks for your endorsement. I admire your courage and commitment to this battle. You were amazing at FTC and I know you’re going to succeed at everything you put your mind to!

I’m finally reading @Miriam_Grossman’s book “Lost in Trans Nation” which I received at the FTC event in July. I don’t know that I’ve ever seen or heard such a thorough, concise rebuffing of the lies that form the foundation of “gender affirming care.” highly recommended.

@MegEBrock Excellent investigative journalism!! Thank you Meg!

Read the full story here: dailycaller.com/2026/01/16/exc…

🧵Pennsylvania saw a meteoric rise in the number of adolescents receiving puberty blockers through an insurance billing code currently being investigated under the Trump administration on fraud suspicions. My latest for @DailyCaller

@ErinFriday75490 @CAgovernor @Scott_Wiener @RobBonta Thank you @ErinFriday75490 for your work on this case and for your unending commitment to end gender madness. I am with you to the end.

@CAgovernor @Scott_Wiener @robbonta. I want you to know that this pissed off mom who you laughed at, called names, ignored and dismissed is one of the many people behind the amazing ruling in Mirabelli. Never underestimate one voice because from there, an army is built. To the many in the army who cannot reveal themselves - thank you. No more secret school transitions in CA. A round of applause to @PaulJonna and deepest gratitude to the teachers that started it and parents who joined. We aren’t done yet. We will protect our children from the gender cult. Piece by piece - with our last dying breath. And we will exact our pound of flesh. @robbystarbuck @MegEBrock @MattWalshBlog.

@ErinFriday75490 Finally. But too late for many families.

I have chills listening to the HHS announcing that hospitals who receive Medicaid cannot butcher children in the names of gender. Tears.