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Firstly.., why should you be dating two women at the same time?
The one who stood by you when you had nothing, gave you her time, which is extremely valuable, and most not be taken lightly
The one who also helped you become someone, must not also be taken lightly because she invested her resources in you
Both are WIFE MATERIALS
Stop dating two women at the same time so that you save yourself from unnecessary potent curses
@Thebiglade Honestly, this is a wrong thing to say.
What do you mean what will his babe eat?
Did she come to planet earth to wait for a man to foot her bills?.
Y'all make these men think they can do anything so long they have money
This issue of describing women doing house chores as “slavery” is rather a baffling one.
My wife does all the cooking and cleaning at home. But our filling station is seven minutes away, and I’m the one who treks there and back every other day to buy fuel.
She has never done it, and she most likely won’t. We live on the first floor of a two-storey building, and I race down two flights of stairs every time to power the generator and turn it off when needed.
When the electricity is epileptic, I’m the one running up and down repeatedly.
On nights when we run the generator late and we’re both exhausted, but it still needs to be turned off, guess who drags himself out of sleep to go downstairs again? Me.
Our TV developed a glitch right after we bought it last week.
I was the one who packed it back up and carried a 55-inch TV down to the Jumia pickup station. Before that, I had scoured Lawanson to find an electrician to mount the TV on the wall.
When we brought in our couches, we had to pass them through the balcony.
Four Hausa guys helped me lift two couches up to a two-storey height. It was so hectic to achieve.
Two guys stood on the fence, three guys went up. Those on the ground passed them to those on the fence.
They then passed to us before passing them through the door.
I could go on, but this isn’t to praise myself. It’s to show that house chores in a marriage are typically shared between both parties, usually according to physical capacity.
I handle almost all the hefty tasks at home, anything that requires intense physical strength: carrying, lifting, trekking, pulling, hitting, and so on.
And gladly and dutifully so.
Our clothes are dry-cleaned. I take them there and pick them up.
My point? Gendered domestic duties are not oppression.
Expecting women to primarily manage the home is not “internalized misogyny,” whatever that postmodern buzzword is supposed to mean.
“Mummy in the kitchen cooking rice” is evolutionarily valid. Women have historically taken care of the nurturing of the home; men ensured the protection of the tribe.
This is also why over 90% of the most dangerous jobs are held by men. We generally do the heavy lifting, and women contribute their share too.
Let’s not create a gender war where none is necessary. Both men and women have domestic obligations, at home and in society.
@AjeboWriter For him, he needs to stop taking liquid once it's 4pm and for you, your sleeping posture is the problem, try sleeping on your side, instead of laying facing down or up...... sleep sideways
The first time I ever slept over at my boyfriend’s place, I woke up to see him frowning at me like he failed JAMB. I asked if he was okay, he hissed & faced the wall
I told myself, “Okay… maybe he’s just not a morning person.” Some people wake up with joy…
Opened my bank app and smiled
Opened my deep freezer and smiled
Opened my fridge and smiled
Looked at my compound and smiled
Health is good too
Can’t complain because God has been really faithful and I’m grateful.🙏🏾
@temitoayoo@DanielRegha Exactly 💯.
And if she meets a guy eventually,she would be expecting the standard that has been set for her, because in her head she deserves it and there's no settling for less.
We go dey alright
@DanielRegha Hes got a point. 1.3m naira on wig for girl you just met is too much. I understand it’s for content but that’s setting unrealistic standard for the babe.
He now left her for who exactly?… after all that. Nawa!!!
Asher Kine is actually the problem, whether or not Kennedy and Becky are/were dating is their personal drama to handle. There's content, and there's overdoing things, and what he did was set an unrealistic standard for Becky and a lot of people. You met someone for the first time, fly her out, spent heavily on items (like wigs that cost over N1.3m) she clearly doesn't need as a student, and then act all lovey-dovey; To what end? Even the Becky looks well taken care of, there are many students in that same uni that most definitely need help financially. We encourage a lot of wrongful acts then complain when it's being normalized. Absolute NONSENSE.
@Manapasta@Tanwa454303@Rene_noire We can't continue with this stereotype please.
As much as there are women who spent their youthful age gallivanting with older men,we can't rule out the fact that there are women who didn't.
Most women didn't think marriage mattered to them and when it did,time was far gone.
@Tanwa454303@Rene_noire They were sleeping around while they did their masters, got certified and published articles…
They could sleep around but God forbad they ever found a defend man to marry…!!!
Explains where even in 30s, they remain unmarried…!!!
Once you’re single and over 30 in nigeria, a lot and I mean a lot of men immediately think you’re miserable and alone. Get this, they think you shouldn’t have a choice too. Apparently once you’re over 30 you should settle for any man that’s willing to take you. Interesting !
@Manapasta@Tanwa454303@Rene_noire This statement is not true sir.
How can you explain the women who had relationships for years and it eventually went sour.
How can you explain women who watched their mum's suffer traumatic experiences with men
How can you explain women who weren't pretty enough to be approached
@ayonzontop@Tanwa454303@Manapasta@Rene_noire Yes ,there's always a possibility of that.
And there's a possibility that a sensible guy approached her,but there's this mindset he has that can't keep a marriage.
So what should she do sir?
Just settle down because the society will call her old.
Please we can do better
@thrillz01@Tanwa454303@Manapasta@Rene_noire Hello sir,it's not an excuse.
The fact is, not so many women are lucky with men.
You can't expect them to just settle because time is no longer their friend.
Let's exercise kindness please
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