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@OBAMA8052

Driving Plant Efficiency & Operational Safety | 8+ Yrs in FMCG & LNG | Mechanical Engineering | Tech-Inclined Innovator

Lagos Katılım Mart 2011
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MissG🦋
MissG🦋@MissGijae·
@olufash @OBAMA8052 @Cr7Godbrand So I said a bad thing by saying both partners should contribute to household chores equally? Before getting married didn’t you do your own household chores? Same way the woman did? Why does that have to change because you got a wife? Outsource if you can’t contribute fully,simple
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STUNNER
STUNNER@Cr7Godbrand·
I’ve been married for five years, and my wife does most of the cooking and cleaning. I hardly do those things. Why? Because she cooks three types of meals on the weekend that last from Monday to Friday. She only does laundry on weekends. She only cleans on weekends. We also do our shopping only on weekends. I had to help create these routines for her because she kept complaining about the “mental load” crap. Women create a lot of this mental load for themselves and then complain that motherhood is hard. No, you made motherhood hard on yourselves. She doesn’t have to deep-clean the floor late at night. She can do it tomorrow. She doesn’t have to do laundry late at night either. Laundry can even be done on the weekend. She doesn’t have to wash the dishes immediately; they can wait until tomorrow.
gingerX@Ginger_xe

The exhaustion of being a mom and a wife🥲🤧 it's two different responsibilities

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Obama
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@MissGijae @Cr7Godbrand Marriage is always a partnership to you gender until it enter finances and u remember the MAN is a provider 🤡
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MissG🦋
MissG🦋@MissGijae·
@Cr7Godbrand “My wife does most of the cooking and cleaning “ So we should clap for you? Marriage is a partnership and household chores should be equally shared between partners , even if you can’t equally contribute then you should outsource some of the responsibilities, Nawa oo
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@ABUJAPLUG @Dr_Afo I know you too prefer comfort and u go all the way out to get it for ursef. Why must she seek comfort in other people’s sweat and can’t sweat it out herself?
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@ReasonBeing @JezziiB Somebody did a only female gym center… Guess who closed up the following month? Yes! U guessed right.
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jezz
jezz@JezziiB·
Women: "If men disappeared for one week, we could walk alone at 3 AM, wear anything at all, leave our drinks unattended, travel anywhere and actually feel free." Men: "But who would protect you?" Women: "Protect us...from who?"
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D.VICTOR🫪
D.VICTOR🫪@LifeFuture64·
@heismric @DavidoPolice Bro I know this don’t relate to whatever if going on, but please hit the gym and get a proper stylist
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adetutu
adetutu@adetutuAp·
@Priye644455 @heismric If she really wants to deprive her son off good life, she wouldn’t have gave birth to him, you all so concerned about dual citizenship but forget she’s a mother. Then he should have think before acting
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UGO 🇬🇧
UGO 🇬🇧@heismric·
For the past week your father has been harassing my family and showing up at my Lagos residence unannounced, with threats about taking my away son, again. Now I get a call from the Lagos State Ministry of Justice Public defender, social services department that you filled, yet another false petition accusing my sister of forcefully taking my son from you, when in fact you left him on his sick bed unattended with no adult supervision, because “you went to the market” but filled such petition, even tho you know he was taken to our family hospital, treated and has been spending time with me? Just like you falsely accused my sister in London to the UK’s social services of trying to take our son from you too? Which was again disproved. You asked to spend time with him a few days to his birthday today at 9am on WhatsApp. I responded by 2pm today that he can be dropped off to you tomorrow if you can confirm if that works. But you were at the Lagos state ministry by 4pm filling a false petition, damm! My boy is not even officially British yet, I still have to give that to him in a few months, yet your family keeps trying to take advantage of him, first to emotionally blackmail me into giving in, then for your visa sake, and even now, wants to try and use him again, and again, and again! It’s okay for you to enjoy self-destruction, but dragging my boy to forcefully remain with you in Lagos and forfeit his life in the Uk and dual citizenship is a deep level of reckless wickedness for a child you claim to love, yet steady putting in harms way.
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سلطان
سلطان@_su6an·
احتاج اجابة منطقية وش السبب أن كريستيانو كذا صارت شخصيته؟ الدوري بيده والحسم بيده والمباراة الاخيرة بملعب النصر ليه كذا منهار نفسيًا
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Obama@OBAMA8052·
@willinilli024 Me that didn’t know that kids can eat rice with meat nko? I thought it’s a fable for a child to eat any food with meat, it’s for the grown-up adults. Technically, I didn’t know we were poor till I was 10 and get to see how other kids eat. Your reality as a child is the new normal
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𝓞𝓶𝓪 🎀
𝓞𝓶𝓪 🎀@justmercy__·
@bigOracle_ Sorry to ask but how old were you then? Because a jss3 student isn’t supposed to know how to do all these things
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@ZamakonkeK Let a man does this to another lady who loves him genuinely, they will say he’s an intentional man, thoughtful and very spontaneous. Asking for boundaries is either one of two things, you don’t like him enough and u av the main man inside ur apartment already.
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ZamaKonke Khuzwayo
ZamaKonke Khuzwayo@ZamakonkeK·
My boyfriend offered to come over, I pleaded him not to come as i let him know I was drained and needed to rest, explaining I wouldn’t be good company. An hour later, he was at my door anyway. I requested bolt for him and made sure he got home safely. Boundaries deserve respect. I went back to sleep, and by the time I woke up, he had blocked me. If I’m honest, I felt relieved. I need a relationship where space is respected. Having space is essential.
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@Usmanashafe She went to school for education but graduated with allocation.
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Big Uncle
Big Uncle@Usmanashafe·
Aunty Shade was 21 years old when she married Aare Akanni Razaq Okoya in 1999 Okoya was 59 at the time. Baba was in UNILAG on the Monday morning of that fateful day to seal a business deal with the school management, when he saw Sade walking by, with her friends, going for their 10am lecture Baba could not believe his eyes at the sighting of a damsel that just walked past in front of his car. Even though Shade was in the midst of her friends, walking together, Baba could still fished her out. It was like sighting a diamond among stones. She shined differently 💎 Immediately, baba ordered his driver to stop the car, he wind down the glass and he reached out to call and seek indulgence of the beautiful lady. Respectfully, Shade answered and approached the car It was love at first sight for both of them The rest they say is history 😊🤭
Abeni Okin🦚❤️@Jemeelahh_

How old was Chief Razaq Okoya when he married Shade Okoya?

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Obama@OBAMA8052·
@TDeisine I waited 9months in my case to be intimate with my woman again… for most part of the months, I was angry unnecessarily because I don’t know why madam will just close shop. There’s nobody I didn’t report her to, I reported her to my enemy sef. God forgive me 😂
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Deisine
Deisine@TDeisine·
Nobody prepared me for how low my libido got after childbirth. After the usual six weeks healing stage, I noticed I don’t even want my husband to hug me, I can practically give you flying heading if you talk about sex to me. I read that the 6 weeks is just for physical healing, you have to give yourself time. That was how three months passed and I still wasn’t feeling myself, uncle did not know how to approach me because I was always looking angry. By the fifth month, I realized something was off, I don’t even want my husband anywhere close to me. I had to seek help from my doctor and truly, something was wrong.
Nonso 🎀@maxnonso

Married people, let’s talk After childbirth, when is the right time to resume intimacy? Is it based on medical advice, personal comfort, or just how both partners feel? Would really love to hear real experiences and advice

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Obama@OBAMA8052·
@OurFavOnlineDoc @VickyShegzy Words on the marble this morning “Ignorance always inspires misplaced anger” Olufunmilayo 2026.
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OurFaveOnlineDoc 🇬🇧 🇳🇬
OurFaveOnlineDoc 🇬🇧 🇳🇬@OurFavOnlineDoc·
@VickyShegzy Because what you have minimised and casually reduced to “test interpretation” is an actual doctors appointment. The doctor needs to see your results, review your symptoms and plan a treatment: it’s not as simple as “interpretation”. Ignorance always inspires misplaced anger.
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OurFaveOnlineDoc 🇬🇧 🇳🇬
OurFaveOnlineDoc 🇬🇧 🇳🇬@OurFavOnlineDoc·
Let us clarify something here, This is for the sake of public education. 1. Paying 119k consultation fee to see a gynaecologist is *not* ridiculous. This is a very fair charge to see a specialist in a private clinic setting. 2. It takes about 15years of medial school and postgraduate education to become a gynaecologist. You can’t see a specialist and pay peanuts. It costs time, money and a lot of work to become a gynaecologist. 3. Many of you gladly pay 500k for wig, you have no problems with 150k for bridal makeup that nobody notices, which will wash away in 3hours and you can even casually pay 50k to tie gele at wedding but you draw the line at paying less than 120k to see a gynaecologist for your healthcare. If you can spend premium money on ephemeral things like wig and makeup, pls kindly prioritise your health, dear Nigerians. 4. The only way you can see a specialist and pay cheap or pay nothing is if the service is subsidised or funded by the government or by NGOs. This is why government hospitals are cheaper, or sometimes free, compared to private hospitals. You may pay nothing as an end user but someone else is actually covering the true costs of that service. 5. This takes me to my final point: Marie Stopes in Nigeria is a non-profit NGO that is heavily funded by donor grants and international organisations who subsidise the actual costs to make it cheap for you the end user. It is a bad argument to compare Marie Stopes (funded by NGO money) to a private clinic gynaecologist that relies solely on being run by patient’s fees. The actual cost in Marie Stopes will be far higher if not for the donations of good people and organisations who ensure the doctors are well paid and you won’t need to pay high for treatments or consultation. I know life is tough in Nigeria and people find accessing good healthcare very expensive for the average person, however this is not the gynaecologists fault. This is the governments fault who have impoverished us, made us poor, failed to maintain the public hospitals and who have made people’s earnings so little that they can’t afford healthcare. I hope this explanation is helpful.
Elizabeth Adewale@elizaego

Sorry about your experience. 119,000 for consultation with gynecologist is ridiculous. Something that is just 30k at Marie Stopes 😭. Even registration fee is just 5000 naira and their service and care is amazing. I wish more people knew about them.

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Dimma
Dimma@dimmastrong·
I’m ashamed to tell the story of how he demoted my uncle from Principal to Primary 3 school teacher for eating students’ WAEC money. He came to the family compound to ask him if he’s mad.😩🤭. It didn’t stop there, he was dismissed on voluntary retirement and all the money he
Ifeanyichukwu Samuel😎@Ifeanyichukvu

I schooled in Onitsha High School, Onitsha. One morning, the principal Mrs Julie Ofoefuna informed us that Mr Peter Obi was coming to our school because the Senior Prefect called him and reported that the school building was at the verge of collapse which was true. We thought it was a joke because my school was one of the local schools then, we said” the governor has not finished visiting CKC, DMGS, St Charles, QRC”etc these are best schools then. By 12:00pm that day, he landed with Dr Kay Onyechi the state commissioner of basic education, he inspected the school. He said he will return after two weeks. Two weeks passed we didn’t see him, we took his words as normal Nigeria politicians 😭😭😂.On the third week which was school closing period, he landed. He came like a thief, no motorcades or sirens blowing ” he apologized for coming after two weeks, he said when he learnt that the school was in exam period, he decided to wait but to come after exam. In the end, he gave more than enough for the school renovation. He asked us what we wanted for lunch, nobody could mention any reasonable food. He gave each student ₦100 for snacks.

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Obama
Obama@OBAMA8052·
@tiphe_j I remove the one from my gen and I didn’t replace it back, I’ve been using my gen directly since then and I think I like the work of the gen now without the AVR.
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big_tiphe✨
big_tiphe✨@tiphe_j·
So I tried turning on the generator today and it is not bringing light. I called the repairer and he said this part is faulty in the gen. He quoted 20k for the original and 18k for the Tokunbo. Does anyone know how much this actually costs? I hope I’m not being duped.
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@Techtee7 @ThaBoyYom What’s not normal is YOU existing in this world with us. Though u aren’t living either, just existing and occupying space like MATTER
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0xTee
0xTee@Techtee7·
@ThaBoyYom But it’s natural for a man to provide for his family It’s not normal to expect the same responsibilities from a lady
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@NnorukaObianuju @IyelolaIge The lady who received the prick too has no business collecting the prick wen she know say she sef no guide. Infact, everyone of them is mad 😡
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Nnoruka Obianuju
Nnoruka Obianuju@NnorukaObianuju·
@IyelolaIge Run from the situation? A situation he should have avoided by using a condom or not fucking at all. As a broke person, you have no business fucking worst still, fucking raw. 😒
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ARÁKÙNRIN ÌYÈLỌLÁ 👷🏡
I received a call this morning that a childhood friend of mine is gone. He impregnated a lady. She gave birth and got stuck in the hospital. Bills unpaid. Pressure from the lady. Pressure from her mother. He reached out to me a few weeks ago. I sent him some money. His workmates said he had been thinking too much lately. He mentioned to them he was hypertensive. The last call he took was from the lady. After he dropped that call he fainted where he sat. Before they could get him to a hospital he was gone. This morning the lady was discharged. The family sorted the hospital bill immediately. The same bill they could not sort when he was alive. Men please take care of yourselves. Even if na to run from the situation temporarily, run. Come back later when you can breathe. It is better than dying. Rest well my guy.🕊🕊
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Obama
Obama@OBAMA8052·
@lhaja_07 @Mautiin01 Na wetin pain me be that… Ur woman don sabi u and she tell u say u no go like it but weyrey no gree 😂
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