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@SkullPiler I ain’t watching that. She’s cute tho idk why yall whining

Your trad wife sir

@Kaleggez @SherbyJohn @nocontextmemes There’s definitely room for nuance and different friendship dynamics. Honestly not much I’d take offense with your last reply, except for the fact that it gave me a totally different impression than your original comment lol

I chat with friends all the time, what I am saying is, I am not always 100% available and I hope they respect some boundaries. I message friends and don't even expect them to reply straight away. But this society has changed the rules in the last few decades in which if I don't respond for any arbitrary time they believe is socially acceptable, I am the bad guy? I'm a full time carer and at the hospital helping them out after an emergency happened, I had a friend legit stop speaking to me for 6 months because I didn't respond in an adequate time frame. Lets day he is an ex friend. Also, life is fucking hard sometimes and if mf spam call and text chat when I am playing Red Dead Redemption 2, fuck the right off, too. If you don't understand that, and I can never be your friend. Life isn't always about you. I can only control my life and I do so much as I can. Have some self respect

@LindyTasteful @grugcapital 🤚 Bumbling idiot here doing something similar

@grugcapital We've overcorrected so far against credentials now that people actually think "having a 3.9 from Columbia in financial engineering and working at a major bank" is something a bumbling idiot is capable of

You got to be really careful around someone who has intellectual horsepower like this, but is capable of playing dumb most of the time. Sociopath archetype

@bryan_johnson I can verify, she sleeps with me every night

I have never slept next to Kate. The only thing we do in bed is have sex. We have separate beds and homes. Should you do the same? Not necessarily. The science is split. Here's the data: 1) Your partner does wake you up when you sleep together. 7 nights of actigraphy sleep measurement in 55 couples (aged 18 to 72, no sleep disorders) showed about 6 partner triggered awakenings per night, on average. Roughly 1 in 5 of wake ups was set off by the partner stirring first, and participants slept through only about half of their partner’s awake time. The catch: the study never compared sharing a bed to sleeping alone. 2) Yet couples who sleep together report sleeping better. A survey of about 1,000 adults found that sharing a bed with a partner tracked with less insomnia, less fatigue, more sleep, and better mental health than sleeping alone. The catch: self-reported, cross-sectional, no follow-up. Healthier, happier people may simply be the ones more likely to share beds, so this is associative at best. 3) Women's sleep might take the hit from sharing a bed. A study of 10 couples had each person sleep at least 10 nights alone and 10 nights together. Women slept measurably worse with a partner in the bed, on both actigraphy and their own ratings. Men reported sleeping better, subjectively. 4) Polysomnography, the gold standard for measuring sleep and sleep stages, points to REM gains with co-sleeping. A study of 12 couples found co-sleeping came with about 10% more REM sleep, less fragmented REM, longer undisturbed REM runs, and tighter sleep-stage syncing between partners, alongside more limb movement. 5) Synced sleep tracks with lower blood pressure and inflammation. In 46 couples that slept together, the more in sync their sleepwake timing, the lower their sleeping blood pressure (strongest in women) and the lower their inflammation (both sexes). The link held even after adjusting for how often they actually shared a bed, so the driver looks like the synchrony, not sharing the bed. Only two of these studies compared the same person in both beds, and both are tiny: 10 and 12 couples. One found the result flips by sex. The rest is correlation. The answer is individual. For some couples the shared bed improves sleep. For others, separate beds are the right move.

@TheCatholicEngr @RandomMHumanoid women have agency! I believe in yall!

@RandomMHumanoid It's not in their nature. It's like asking an elephant to fly.

Pssst If a girl on Catholic Match "views" your profile, that's her shooting her shot. Think of it like giving you a wink from across the room. She already knows what you look like from your profile picture. That she clicked on your profile to learn more about you means you passed her attraction threshold. A "like" is too forward and girls like to be discreet in showing their feelings. They fear rejection more than you. I'm giving you insane ball knowledge here. Proceed with caution.

@Kaleggez @SherbyJohn @nocontextmemes Is that really how you view your friends? I reply quick, I double, even triple, even 5x-10x text my friends because I like talking to them. I like them, and we like talking to each other, they’re some of life’s biggest gifts

@SherbyJohn @nocontextmemes I hope I'm getting paid by the hour being your friend

@AdemLuz You’re right they don’t, I’m saying they could and they should

@mlkinggraveth These guys never act like that. They’re always carrying the girls bags and making sure not to piss her off. Total inversion while covering the tab

Terrible fate to be liked by women for having money. Being unenthusiastically fucked as a means to an end. I see these "couples" all the time and know a lot of these women and they always shit talk the guy behind his back and laugh maniacally about their what a loser he is. Usually cheat but not always. The real humiliation is ambient and passive. Everyone tolerates the guy's presense at dinners and then expects him to pick up the check. No one sees him as anything more than a pay-to-play participant in a world he doesn't belong

@Coinvo This sounds enticing but Korean culture is trash

WOW: 🇰🇷 South Korea is launching a new Top-Tier visa to fight low fertility rate and the aging population. They want over 1,000 skilled professionals for tech jobs offering flexible work and quick permanent residency in 1 year.

@SlumRNA_Dog Guys know it’s bullshit, they’re dangling the thing you want in front of your face “hey do this thing, you’ll get rewarded!” it’s textbook manipulation to get what they want

Every study done on this has shown that there is no amount of chores a man can do that moves the needle a hair on female desire.

@idyllicmusing @MisterJay9977 Yes + I don’t blame them

@MisterJay9977 Are you short?

Two essential studies have now shown that men under 5’7” (170 cm) exhibit a measurably higher frequency of psychopathic and narcissistic traits as a direct evolutionary strategy to command authority. They utilize psychological manipulation to compensate for a lack of physical stature.

@christinaharker @Justice_099 @jakozloski No worries, twitter threads have always been kinda atrocious (coming from Reddit here) I’ve done it too

@mlkinggraveth @Justice_099 @jakozloski Ack, sorry, x UX for threading. Meant for the guy above who said I was embarrassing myself. And thanks dude, I appreciate it. <3

The median woman falls within the range considered ideal by the median man. The median man is an inch short of what the median woman calls ideal. n = 414k.

@christinaharker @Justice_099 @jakozloski I wasn’t the one who said you didn’t :) I’ll say as a 5’3 guy; at least you’re better than most it seems

@mlkinggraveth @Justice_099 @jakozloski I was with someone for 13 years who is 5'7". I mean what I say.

@PageSeverian @christinaharker @jakozloski It’s pretty standard psychology of app design, and I’m gonna call out the underlying malice

@PageSeverian @christinaharker @jakozloski That’s the thing, we shouldn’t have to do all that. But these shitty apps make the height preference selection process more streamlined -> making having a height preference the “default” way to fill out the app

@Justice_099 @christinaharker @jakozloski I hate height preference women more than the next guy but let’s at least give em the chance to put their money where their mouth is first

@christinaharker @jakozloski JFC... just say you fit in the 5'10" and above category and don't embarrass yourself like this.

@christinaharker @jakozloski You’re valid for that, “ifgaf about height checkbox” should always be encouraged :)

@jakozloski I love your guys' project, you know that.. But I have to point out that you didn't give me an option to mark this as immaterial. There was no idgaf checkbox. So we don't know how many men and women don't really care. Or, conversely, for how many this is a total dealbreaker – and their own heights, which may correlate. 5'4" here and idgaf. I'm not alone. x.com/lizisamused/st…

@EckhartAurelius @jakozloski How is something out of a persons control, and ultimately has NO effect on the relationship be considered “mediocre”? Your fuck ass face is mediocre

@jakozloski Oh god no, being merely average isn’t ideal?! How’s that possible?! How can mediocre not be ideal?!

@agnidas31 @jakozloski Yup, it’s always been racist on top of heightist

@jakozloski To be fair, and im Mexican, height for white men in America is taller. Maybe what this women are thinking of is of white men.

@RuanPluan @jakozloski Very vocal little AA-B cup enjoying guy here!! But fuck these height preference bitches they don’t deserve shit

@jakozloski well to be fair most women have little a/b cups and 100% of dudes want c/d we just arent so mean about it