

Jono Bacon
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@jonobacon
Runs Stateshift, the accelerator for reliable community engagement & growth every quarter. Wrote 'People Powered' (@harpercollins).
























26 weapons grade parenting tips: 1/ Give them a "heads up," 5 minutes until bedtime, 10 minutes before leaving the playground 2/ Look at the world more through their eyes 3/ Don’t discipline like an angry madman. Stay calm and firm, model how you want THEM to resolve conflict 4/ Let them argue their case respectfully. Teaches negotiation and critical thinking 5/ Skip the long lectures 6/ Use natural consequences: forgot homework? Let them explain it to the teacher. Forgot their lunch? They'll figure it out 7/ Be consistent and follow through. "We are leaving the playground if you don't stop..." 8/ Make "How can I help?" part of YOUR vocabulary. It builds reliability 9/ Share your unseen efforts: hustling for work, hitting the gym. Actions speak louder than words but when they can’t see it, TELL THEM 10/ Teach accountability by modeling it yourself: “I was wrong. sorry” 11/ Create family traditions like weekly movie nights, Sunday pancakes, whatever works 12/ More game nights 13/ Take an interest in their interests: video games, books, sports... do it with them. 14/ Hike together. Nature slows time and generates gratitude 15/ Build something. LEGO, puzzles, a fort, the Amazon delivery box 16/ Teach them skills: tie knots, start a fire, read a map 17/ Introduce chess or checkers. Start early 18/ Let them plan a family outing or navigate you there (they can get you through the airport) 19/ Always greet your wife with love. That moment sets the tone for the family 20/ Share some challenges (age appropriate) 21/ Respect their privacy. Knock before entering their room 22/ Teach the value of money early: "wants vs. needs," compounding, saving, etc 23/ Let them see you sweat 24/ Teach them to cook. Start small: eggs, pancakes, cookies. Embrace the mess 25/ No screens at meals ever 26/ Prioritize movement as a UNIT: family walks, workouts, hikes, dance-offs- whatever gets the everyone in synch

